I started teaching my daughter to pack at age 3

I started teaching my daughter to pack when she was 3 years old, which, I know, sounds inefficient at best and slightly unhinged at worst. Packing with a preschooler is slow: it turns a 30-minute task into a 90-minute one and involves delicate negotiations over which stuffed animals are "essential," last-minute outfit swaps as she rediscovers her favorite sparkly boots, and frequent distractions.

If saving time today were the goal, I would simply do it myself. My perspective changed after I heard versions of the same complaint from multiple mothers who were still packing for their teenagers; that dynamic doesn't appear suddenly at 13, it builds over time, so I decided to start while my toddler still craves independence.

The first time we "packed together," I did almost all of the work in advance. I pulled everything she would need and laid it out on the floor of her room, alongside an open suitcase.

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